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brownfireball
Добавлен 3 фев 2023
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In the game of pretty privilege, everyone loses
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In this video I discuss the fleeting nature of pretty privilege. I go into the debate on Ozempic, weight management and body image, and the lengths some may go to maintain the associated pretty privilege that comes with thinness. I then go into the body changes that come with motherhood and tie this into the discussion, that for even some of the most beautiful women in the world, the maintenance of one's body and therefore looks and consequently pretty privilege is a constant struggle. Finally I talk about how life is ever changing and therefore if you play t...
In this video I discuss the fleeting nature of pretty privilege. I go into the debate on Ozempic, weight management and body image, and the lengths some may go to maintain the associated pretty privilege that comes with thinness. I then go into the body changes that come with motherhood and tie this into the discussion, that for even some of the most beautiful women in the world, the maintenance of one's body and therefore looks and consequently pretty privilege is a constant struggle. Finally I talk about how life is ever changing and therefore if you play t...
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"Marathon mom" vs. *dense dad*, man vs. bear, and *popping the balloon* on the gender wars discourse
Просмотров 7 тыс.28 дней назад
In this video I talk about the "marathon mom" that went viral on TikTok, due to her decision to continue competing, rather than to stop to embrace her children. I talk about how women are more than just their "motherhood" role and why this whole instance struck a nerve with most women. I then go into the man vs. bear debate, where I acknowledge that it's "not all men" but rather the luck of the...
In a "pick me" world, be a *girl's girl*
Просмотров 18 тыс.Месяц назад
It often seems like it's pick me women on one end and girl's girls on the other, and today I want to get into my perspective on women supporting women. I'll first go into weaponized incompetence, where it's critical to not only hold those upholding misogynistic ideals accountable, but if partners and husbands fall prey to weaponized incompetence, or are absent from a woman's life, it's that "vi...
The obsessed *boy mom* to toxic "monster in law" pipeline is gross
Просмотров 12 тыс.Месяц назад
The creepy and obsessed boy mom to toxic mother in law (or monster in law) pipeline is real and it's honestly traumatizing. In this video I talk about the TikTok "toxic boy mom" trend where moms are absolutely obsessed with their boys/sons, and show extreme preferential treatment when compared to their daughters. I talk about how how boy moms were the pick me women of yesterday, who lived for t...
The toxic "dating coach" to ~forever single~ pipeline is real
Просмотров 23 тыс.2 месяца назад
The dangers of the toxic self-proclaimed dating coaches, femininity coaches and relationship gurus on social media are real and only growing. In this video I talk about the sprinkle sprinkle movement, and the concept of providers within a relationship. I touch upon the facade that tradwives are upholding on TikTok and how content like this is pushing women towards more traditional gender roles....
The rise of the *messy* and ~liberated~ modern woman
Просмотров 10 тыс.2 месяца назад
Stop data brokers from exposing your personal information. Go to my sponsor aura.com/brownfireball to get a 14-day free trial and see how much of yours is being sold Being a woman is chaotic, to say the least. In this video I talk about the various elements that encompass the struggles of the journey of womanhood, especially as a modern woman of today. I talk about beauty standards and aging, g...
Pick me, choose me, marry me, PLEASE!!!
Просмотров 88 тыс.2 месяца назад
The pick me girl of today is the angry, miserable aunty of tomorrow. In this video I talk about the pick me, and how her entire world revolves around male validation and the male gaze. Furthermore, I talk about the "black cat, golden retriever" dynamic as seen on TikTok, and how the pick me is destined to be a golden retriever in her relationships. I also touch upon the concept of a "shut up ri...
The rise of single and lonely... everybody?!
Просмотров 38 тыс.4 месяца назад
In this video I discuss various aspects of the loneliness epidemic. I go into the rise of single and lonely men and discuss how young and impressionable men are being preyed and capitalized upon by those championing the "manosphere". This is in stark contrast to women who are choosing to stay single. In this discussion, I present talking points from Dr. Scott Galloway, a NYU professor who empha...
The economics of *pretty privilege* are extremely ugly
Просмотров 65 тыс.5 месяцев назад
Stop data brokers from exposing your personal information. Go to my sponsor aura.com/brownfireball to get a 14-day free trial and see how much of yours is being sold. In this video I discuss the ugly economics of pretty privilege. I go into the economics of thinness and how the lower a woman's BMI and body fat percentage, the higher the income she is likely to generate. This discussion is based...
Tradwives are selling us a one-way ticket to ~delululand~
Просмотров 95 тыс.5 месяцев назад
Tradwife content has taken over TikTok by storm and I am NOT here for it. In this video I go into an article titled "TikTok ruined my husband of 12 years, now he wants a "tradwife" and we're getting divorced." I then talk about which feeds the patriarchy more: the capitalistic structures that exist in society, or the traditional structures that exist for women. I also go into how no one works h...
To be ~childfree~ or not to be
Просмотров 20 тыс.5 месяцев назад
Is having babies a trap, or is it the biggest joy a woman can experience? To be childfree or not to be... that is the question. Support the channel: ruclips.net/channel/UCFYwr1qzH8qGrhS36yTY4lAjoin Channel Art/Video Animations: kashmirichaiandbooks Check out my other videos: On boundaries and people pleasers: ruclips.net/video/1g579OwUUxk/видео.htmlsi=hx8u3IjeTO7AAZVj On getting ...
Simone Biles, girl... what happened?!
Просмотров 28 тыс.6 месяцев назад
Simone Biles and her husband have gone viral recently after they appeared on a recent podcast interview where Mr. Simone Biles (Jonathan Owens) states "men are the catch". Let me tell you, I have thoughts... Support the channel: ruclips.net/channel/UCFYwr1qzH8qGrhS36yTY4lAjoin Channel Art/Video Animations: kashmirichaiandbooks Check out my other videos: On boundaries and people p...
Why you'll feel like a ~loser~ in your 20s (and *very behind* in life)
Просмотров 11 тыс.6 месяцев назад
In this video I talk about feeling behind in life, in your 20s and maybe even going into your 30s. I discuss the social pressures of reaching certain milestones by 30 and how even if you don't have a house, a husband or even a career, it'll all be okay because your 20s are meant to be actual trash (and your 30s might be too). Support the channel: ruclips.net/channel/UCFYwr1qzH8qGrhS36yTY4lAjoin...
If your *soft life* doesn't depend on YOU, you're ~delulu~ (sorry)
Просмотров 10 тыс.6 месяцев назад
The only way to live a soft life is to give YOURSELF one. I mean yeah, avoid the dusty *sprinkle sprinkle* but only you can give yourself the financial independence you deserve because YOU are the high value (wo)man. It's simple: she who makes the money, holds the power. Support the channel: ruclips.net/channel/UCFYwr1qzH8qGrhS36yTY4lAjoin Channel Art/Video Animations: kashmiricha...
Stop pouring into cups that don't pour into yours (it's time to set *boundaries*)
Просмотров 6 тыс.6 месяцев назад
Let's talk about people pleasers and setting boundaries in your relationships, so you can finally have the respect you deserve. Let's also discuss when it's time to cut someone off after they've crossed your personal boundaries. Sometime's it's okay to simply say no (and enter your villain era). Support the channel: ruclips.net/channel/UCFYwr1qzH8qGrhS36yTY4lAjoin Channel Art/Video Animations: ...
Unless it's ~love~ on *your terms*, it's a waste of time
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Unless it's ~love~ on *your terms*, it's a waste of time
Celebrity activism is getting embarrassing (Amy Schumer, I'm looking at you)
Просмотров 4,2 тыс.7 месяцев назад
Celebrity activism is getting embarrassing (Amy Schumer, I'm looking at you)
Boy math is making you wait 7 YEARS, just to marry another girl in 6 months
Просмотров 78 тыс.8 месяцев назад
Boy math is making you wait 7 YEARS, just to marry another girl in 6 months
Ladies, it's time to age ~disgracefully~
Просмотров 13 тыс.9 месяцев назад
Ladies, it's time to age ~disgracefully~
I became the ~domestic goddess~ I used to DESPISE (lol, kind of)
Просмотров 6 тыс.9 месяцев назад
I became the ~domestic goddess~ I used to DESPISE (lol, kind of)
Love exists in the real world, not in ~delululand~ (sorry)
Просмотров 105 тыс.9 месяцев назад
Love exists in the real world, not in ~delululand~ (sorry)
Why are we obsessed with trash reality tv?
Просмотров 3,3 тыс.10 месяцев назад
Why are we obsessed with trash reality tv?
If your *soft life* depends on a "high value man", yikes.
Просмотров 60 тыс.10 месяцев назад
If your *soft life* depends on a "high value man", yikes.
The end of *female friendships* & why the "girl gang" is in decline
Просмотров 24 тыс.11 месяцев назад
The end of *female friendships* & why the "girl gang" is in decline
The obsession with ~beauty~ and the subtle art of keeping *your mouth* SHUT
Просмотров 13 тыс.11 месяцев назад
The obsession with ~beauty~ and the subtle art of keeping *your mouth* SHUT
The biological clock waits for no woman
Просмотров 35 тыс.Год назад
The biological clock waits for no woman
"Feminism is a joke": did feminists create Andrew Tate?
Просмотров 10 тыс.Год назад
"Feminism is a joke": did feminists create Andrew Tate?
Why *overconsumption* is a form of ~escapism~
Просмотров 10 тыс.Год назад
Why *overconsumption* is a form of ~escapism~
Why are ~bad boys~ so irresistible? (no, you can't fix him)
Просмотров 12 тыс.Год назад
Why are ~bad boys~ so irresistible? (no, you can't fix him)
Congratulations!!!
Oh my, congratulations Usra! 🎉. I relate to your views a lot, and I love your content. If you start that motherhood experience channel, i would be definitely interested.
congratulations!!! ive been watching you for about a year and i just love and resonate with your content! so so happy for you and your husband🫶🏾 thank you for all you do!
Make your pregnancy updates on this channel, but maybe titled specially (like a miniseries) and then sorted into a playlist :)
aaw congrats ❤ i am so happy for you ❤🎉
Congratulations!
Congratulations Yusra 🎉 Take good care of you over your pregnancy 💛 Btw, you still look gorgeous and radiant ;)
Thanks so much! 🥹❤️
Congrats!! 🎉
Congratulations, I'm so happy for you.🍾🍾🍾🍾
❤🎉 congratulations to you and your husband! We have been conditioned to be scared of pregnancy and birth. Continue to embrace it. Write positive affirmations. ❤❤❤
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Looks only matter in the Patriarchy
Lmao supercap. Babies even recognize good looking people. It will always matter for biological reasons
Congratulations!! that was so kind of you to share your amazing news with us.😊❤
Thanks so much! And of course, I love my community too much to not share! 🥹❤️
Just because the professor showed up to work hours after his mother’s passing, doesn’t mean he’s not grieving People grieve differently
Congrats, very special experience! They grow up so fast genuinely
22:50 right. It is HARD to raise a human baby. Yet housewives are label “lazy” for wanting to stay home and raise their children’s.
Congratulations 🎉❤
Congratulations!
woooah congratulations usra ❤
Awwwww congratulations on the pregnancy!!! 😊💗✨
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@@bfbmain I’m not a mom but I encourage you create your other channel sharing your experiences. Stay safe beautiful thank you for the videos 💗
I love this observation that you shared here, that no matter how much pretty privilege women have, it will be gone soon Also congratulations on your pregnancy💜💜🫶
Thanks so much!! ❤️🩷❤️
Y’know, I always think of late Queen Elisabeth. She was a royal, with access to top-notch medical care, cosmetic and fashion professionals, etc. Gorgeous young lady, then she turned into a grandma. Very dignified and everything, but still a recognizably old lady. If *she* didn’t get to trump the passing of youth, why would the rest of us common folk hold onto any such delusion?
In essence, pick-mes have low self esteem, which means they're highly insecure. People with low self esteem and high insecurity are doormats, which is what these pick-me girls are. And if you're a doormat, you WILL be walked over. Moral of the story, have self respect, cultivate self esteem, you will be picked and respected.
Thanks for stepping up. 🇵🇰 🇮🇳
Pretty privilege is not going anywhere.
I think, the main problem is that „therapy thinking“. Like reach out- to whom? Nobody wants you when you have to reach out. And a therapist is a worker, doing it for the pay. So it‘s just as much not real as an AI friend. 50 years ago, it was normal and natural, that people talked about their problems to real people. Often, they couldn‘t even get fired- so the problem just had to be solved. Nowadays, it just got easier and easier to leave people behind, to leave people out of society. To leave people to unreal listeners- payed therapists, actors who pretend to care and learned some well sounding phrases in psychology. But you won‘t get real friends or partners from a therapy. They can teach me to pretend to fit in- but I can do that on my own, I just don‘t want to anymore. I want to be myselfe and appretiated for that. That is impossible today…
I think it‘s true for everyone, that a partner, that doesn‘t make our life better is not helpful (and I’m a guy and don’t want an empty relationship, I want a real one). But the real question is- how is that possible that people become such assholes, jerks, idiots, whatever, that noone benefits the others emotionally? Like we try to survive the time we have to spend together at work, but we hate each other- and that‘s what we call society or nation?? Dude, I call that „enemy territory“. I call home a place, where I can connect, tell my jokes and people love it, tell my ideas and people appretiate it, hear ideas that help me out or help me grow. Not setbacks, discouraging, bullying or even getting lynched for a joke or idea/opponion.
Great video! Thanks for sharing!
I've never liked dramatic girls ever since I was little. They have an attitude problem. Weren't raised well and became whimsical. Cannot balance their emotions. But not all girls are like that. And men can be such crybabies too.
@brownfireball i am the same skin tone and I swear that ever mauvey nude shade of lipstick looks like pepto bismol on me. I beg, PLEASE tell me what lipstick this is!!!!!
Guys, keep your passport. Get out of America and find you a good woman..
The entitlement of a community that rejects Mindy's phenotype to then be annoyed that she represents herself and her experience instead of their various personalities.
Can we just say that Mindy Kaling became a SELL OUT a while ago! GREAT VIDEO!
She looked better with some meat on her I don't like skinny Mindy..I don't know what your name is but you is.more finerer anyway
Love is blind only actually works when they are each others type
Re-watching a year later!
Side note I liked the show Ms marvel showing her brother marrying a black woman and it was just cool to see
I'm not a brown man but I am a black man but it never sat right with me when she had a billboard up of her about 3 shades lighter promoting the Mindy project, it always stood out with me it just seemed like self hate and I may be wrong but colorism is a real thing black and brown is beautiful
Boy math: I love everything that attracted me to you, now change everything so you don't attract everyone else
Boy math: I don't want a superficial chick but her hair has to be this length and her waist has to be this tiny and her booty has to be this big and her titties has to be at least this size
Boy math: if I never make an appointment, then I never have to see a doctor
Boy math: Monday - wear boxers regular Tuesday - wear same boxers backwards Wednesday - wear same boxers inside out Thursday - wear same boxers inside out and backwards Friday - throw boxers in pile of dirty boxers Saturday - go commando Sunday - buy new boxers for Monday
Boy math is trying to figure out which hot cousin is farthest removed at whatever wedding/funeral
Boy math is not wanting to try new things but will do the dumbest shit repeatedly
Boy math is getting upset with his gf for going out after she begged him about 50 times to join her
Boy math is being a momma's boy yet talk shit about her every chance they get
Boy math is not wanting to share their past with their gf because he doesn't want to feel vulnerable but then throws her past in her face during an argument that has nothing to do with her past.
You forgot Mindy Kalings Champions and Never Have I Ever.
Ngl Aparna was and is my favourite from that show